People like to think they have the whole facts and nothing but the facts. They don't know the whole story. What information I put in here about Barber is from my perception of my experience with him. The other information, I get from sources that are from authority. The newspapers and media can exploit the facts to sensationalize the stories.
I tried to be cautious when I was with Barber, for I had delusions that this marriage would be a lasting one, and non abusive. Apparently anyone can give you a false name, and fake social security number. That is what Barber did. He was not who he said he was. He had not used his real name in 35 years, until he was jailed being married to Joyce #2.

I know that I was gullible in believing his lies, but as Dr. Phil states in his books, SELF MATTERS, and LOVE SMART, sometimes the way we look at ourselves allows us to become victims. I WILL NO LONGER BE A VICTIM of Barber. You will not see me post anymore on my blogs, unless I get notified that he will be out very soon. BE AWARE, identity theft happens every day to at least 30,000 people.